the GRAND. :D
but really, its easier said than done.
not going through with a sale option because it will cause your other half to feel unhappy.
but by not going through with the sale it makes you unhappy and doubt yourself.
sigh... maybe that's why i'm not crazy over marraiges. besides the gown and the fancy dressing up.
this is all deeper than it seems.
2:28:00 am
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